A FRIENDSHIP GAME

See yourself through their eyes.

Predict your vibe, discover what your friends notice, and save your own Character Card.

2–4 players · Separate phones · No download needed

MEET YOUR FRIENDS’ VERSION OF YOU

What is How I See You?

How I See You is a free friendship perception game. Predict how your friends see you, compare their private answers with your own and reveal the dynamic your group creates together.

THE HEART OF THE GAME

One question. Two perspectives.

You guess which qualities your friends will choose. They answer the same focused question privately. Then everyone reveals the overlap—and the qualities you did not expect them to notice.

EXAMPLE QUESTIONHow do your friends see you now?Choose 3 qualities

YOU PREDICTED

🤍 Thoughtful🌿 Calm🧭 Independent
VS

YOUR FRIENDS CHOSE

🤍 Thoughtful 3 picks✨ Warm 2 picks🌈 Adventurous 2 picks

You knew they saw your thoughtful side. The reveal is learning that your warmth and adventurous energy stand out too.

MORE THAN INDIVIDUAL RESULTS

Discover your Group Dynamic

Once everyone has had their turn, the game combines the group’s answers into a shared portrait: the energy you create together, the role each person naturally plays and the connections that stand out.

YOUR GROUP DYNAMICThe Warm Chaos Crew

Playful, supportive and always one story away from losing track of time.

BEING IN THIS GROUP FEELS

🤗 Supported😂 Playful🏡 Comfortable
EVERYONE HAS A ROLE🧡 The Safe Place

The person who makes honesty feel easy.

A CONNECTION THAT SHOWED UP✦ Same Wavelength

Two friends who repeatedly noticed the same qualities.

Group Dynamics highlight patterns in your answers—never rankings of friendship or closeness.

FROM GUESS TO REVEAL

How the friendship game works

  1. 01
    Create a private room

    Choose whether you are playing with new or existing friends, then share the room code.

  2. 02
    Answer privately

    Predict your own result while your friends choose the qualities and energy they see in you.

  3. 03
    Reveal the full picture

    Compare perspectives, save your Character Card and discover your Group Dynamic.

GOOD TO KNOW

How I See You FAQ

Is How I See You free to play?

Yes. How I See You is a free online friendship game with no purchase or app download required.

What will my friends answer about me?

Friends choose the traits that describe you, the energy they feel around you and, for existing friendships, how their first impression compares with how they see you now.

Are my predictions shown immediately?

No. Your predictions and your friends’ choices stay private until the reveal, when the game compares where you matched and what surprised you.

What do I get at the end?

Each player receives a shareable Character Card and the group gets a summary of the qualities, roles and connections that appeared in their answers.

READY TO PLAY?

See how your friends see you.

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